Emails from HOA Officers: A Closer Look
In this section, I will be sharing emails from HOA officers that, in my opinion, highlight instances of bullying, lack of transparency, and mismanagement. These emails reflect the communication style and decision-making (or lack thereof) within our HOA leadership.
⚠️ Disclaimer: All content shared here is for informational purposes only and reflects my personal perspective. Any interpretations are my own opinions, and I encourage readers to form their own conclusions. If any HOA officer would like to provide clarification or context, I am happy to publish their comments (though I may edit for clarity and readability).
Stay tuned for real examples of how our HOA operates behind the scenes!
Email #1: Dec 16, 2024
From HOA President to another board member:
Thank you (...) My weekend was wonderful......entirely because I didn't read a single one of your messages.
(...)
I trust this resolves your concern and moots all the senseless emails you sent over the weekend.
Email #2: Feb 16, 2025
I received an email from the HOA Secretary that included the line:
“I am tired of your antics and the snotty emails.”
This message was surprising not only because of its tone, but also because the sender is a registered attorney in the state of California.
Many residents expect board members—especially those who are also licensed legal professionals—to uphold a high standard of professionalism and civility, regardless of disagreement.
💬 What do you think?
Does this align with the professional standards we should expect from our elected officers? Should licensed attorneys communicating in their role as HOA leaders be held to a higher bar?
Email #3: Jan 13, 2025
Another Example of Condescending Communication
(from the HOA Secretary — who, mind you, is a registered attorney in California): "The CAI offers classes on the duties of HOA boards and building management. You may want to consider taking a class".
Does this email demonstrate professionalism and basic respect? What do you think? We're not naming names here (yet), but this message came from the HOA Secretary — a role that, ideally, should foster collaboration, not contempt.